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Thursday, January 03, 2008

Love not only makes one blind, in my opinion it makes one deaf and stupid too.
Many a times, when one is head over heals in a relationship, emotions run wild and it often takes control over logic. One will often think that love conquers all and nothing can stand in one's way, not even when the whole world is against you. Reality check: Why would the world be against you in the first place? Ever tot of that?

One will usually scoff at those who advise him/ her to think before they plunge into the relationship. Afterall, why worry about things that have not even happened yet? Who can predict the future? Who can guarantee that no hiccups will ever happen in a relationship? Afterall, one has one's partner and that is all that matters. Love is about 2 people and 2 people only right?

You know what? Wrong! Unless you live in a fairy tale and even then, you will more often than not, need help from your fairy godmother, or dwarves. So what happens if you do not live in a fairy tale? Your friends take the role of the fairy godmother or maybe if you are fortunate enough to have many friends, then perhaps dwarves as well...

But alas, the words of all the fairy godmothers and all the dwarves will eventually fall on deaf ears when one is already blinded by love and unless you say what one wants to hear, one will not hear what you want to say at all, until tragedies happen... Well that happens all the time in TV shows too, don't they?

Well anyway, my advise to all those who are madly in love, try to be objective and listen to what the dwarves and the fairy godmothers are saying or have to say. Afterall, if everyone is saying the same thing, there must be some truth in it right?

Should you still persist, at least do not shoo them away or hurt them in the process, cuz well, should your Princess or Price Charming turn out not to the person that you think she/ he to be, your fairy godmothers and your dwarves will be the ones that you are most likely gonna turn to in the end...



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