Thursday, April 24, 2008
While most people prefer to make love and not war, I think sometimes, it takes some small fights to strengthen the bonds between people, be it friends, family members or couples.
It's the disagreements, the squabbles that make us realise that there were differences and it's through these that we learnt to know each other better, and to accept these differences. All of us learn to be a better person when we survived each and every such squabbles.
That does not mean to say that one has to pick a fight over the smallest things just to create that little spark but rather, do not see fights or arguments as a taboo and attempt to avoid confrontations. Over time, this may be the single most damaging factor in any relationship.
So people, do not take such things in such a bad light, talk it out, give a hug, kiss and make up.
It's not as simple as it seems but at the same time, it's not that difficult either.
p.s. *B.B.I.L.U.A.*
1:49 PM
