I have come across a few frens who started off their blogs as purely something personal and private where they jus wanna record down their tots and wat goes on in their lives.

But then wat started off as something simple soon turned into things much more complicated.
After writing for a while, ppl will tend to want others to read what they wrote, so they start asking others to read, set up counters, link up with other frens who blog and in short whore their own blog.

Of cuz then will come a time when ppl encounter things not so great and they really wanna blog it out and then suddenly, they realised that their personal space is not so personal anymore cuz there are other ppl reading and not all agree with them all the time. Sometimes they are pissed at someone whom they call frens and this is gonna make it all the more difficult.

I mean this is just something normal. I had that experience a few times. I always refrained from naming ppl and instead fabricate stories so those involved will know what I'm writing about. Of cuz like I have mentioned so many times before, it's nothing personal but jus an expression of wat happened and how it affected me and left some imprints in me, sometimes strong enuf or worthy enuf for me to crack my brain for a story.

So those who felt uncomfortable about being featured can feel free to talk abt it. Like I mentioned, it's not always a bad thing thrashing things out. Same goes for all those who felt pressured abt blogging abt wat they feel. Your blog should be abt you.

The readers can jus read and accept what they read with a pinch of salt or they can just fuck off.

p.s. See? I have readers who disagree with me using vulgar expressions but well I dun always have to be nice rite? At least not here anyway =)