This may seem like random rumblings but I'm sure the person(s) concerned will understand:

1. You may think that you are doing everyone a service by keeping quiet as promised but guess what? That's not always the case, knowing and keeping quiet when by not keeping quiet may have helped resolve a crisis makes you equally guilty.

2. Do not be so quick to judge if you are not in the situation or experienced similiar situations. It's easy to assume and pass judgements based on your so called moral values. I'll like to see you handle it should you one day be dealt with similiar situations.

3. Let go of your pride and try to salvage if it really means so much to you. Keeping things to yourself is not always the wisest thing to do. There are people who will be able to advise you and make you see things from another perspective. Or maybe all you need is to talk it out and for someone else to listen and not to give advise. Who knows, in the process of listening to yourself, you may get the answers that you are seeking.

4. Lastly if the person I'm intending this for is reading, do consider seriously if you are really willing to give up something that you have nurtured and shared. Maybe something really drastic has happened that made you decide what you have decided. But is it really the end?